
For Those Who Come After: The Long Race of Faith

I’ve been a pastor’s wife, a teacher, and a missionary for about forty years. Looking back, it’s easy to forget that I didn’t start out knowing what to expect from this long race of faith. At first, everything felt fresh and new. I treasured each new discovery, learned from it, and eagerly looked for the…
I’m Not Pedigreed: When You Don’t Fit In

I’m not pedigreed to do what I do. That’s what used to bother me. I don’t come from a prominent preacher family. Nor do I possess any unique talent, such as playing the piano or singing. I’m me, a person who said “Yes” when God called. Even though I obeyed God’s call, that doesn’t mean…
The Hot Flashes of Social Media

Hot flashes aren’t a normal topic here on A Cultural Shift. While I have certainly experienced my fair share of hot flashes (and perhaps a little PMS over the years), I’m not here to talk about them in the classic sense of the word. Bear with me for a moment and consider the nature of…

They Emerge in Stages, When Mornings Are Not a Thing

I have four children, three of whom are grown. The fourth is 18, almost 19, and preparing to go to university. That being said, I have nearly finished raising four teenagers. This work is not for the faint of heart. Raising teenagers requires more work on a parent’s part than any other stage of childhood.…
A Servant to Win More and Save Some

For though I am free from all, I have made myself a servant to all, that I might win more of them…I have become all things to all people, that by all meansI might save some. 1 Corinthians 9:19,22 ESV These verses aren’t new to me, but they stood out to me as I was…
How to Find Time When It Is Lost
How can I find time when it is lost? Time isn’t like a shoe or a set of keys that can be found after being misplaced. Time can’t be redeemed in the literal sense of the word. Or can it? I flew from Pretoria, South Africa to Florida this past Monday. In a way, I…
Just Say Yes Series
A series on trusting God, stepping into His plans, and learning to faithfully say yes to His call.
Leadership Ramblings Series
A series of leadership ramblings that deals with the sometimes complicated paths that leaders have to take.
The Silver, the Image, and the Priest Series
A close look at Judges 17, where returned silver leads to an idol and a priest, showing how faith can drift from God’s design.
Missions Ramblings Series
Thoughts on learning to navigate cross-cultural living by faith, discovering how to dance in step with God’s calling across cultures.
I Was a Wallflower Until I Wasn’t

A long time ago, I was a wallflower. For those of you who have only known me for a short time, I promise this is true.
A Father’s Day I’ll Not Forget: How to Be Grateful

I wrote the following post two years ago. Time has passed without me even noticing. This post is about A Father’s Day that I’ll never forget. This post came to my mind this morning. I thought about our family coming together to watch a Texas/Georgia college football game. (Yes, they lost that game I’m referring…
36 Years of School Runs and I Now Miss Them

My daughter is graduating from high school on June 15th this year (2026). It feels surreal to me; she is our fourth-born, and her graduation means the school runs are done. I have been going to/from school since 1991. That’s a lot of years. When the to/from school cycle began, our family had just moved…

Like a Millstone Around My Neck, How to Carry On

I don’t necessarily plan a theme for the posts here on the blog. I’m too eclectic to have a strong structure to what I write. This method of mine is not at all what is advised when writing. But I’ve always broken out of what is normal, making me feel like a misfit a lot…
We Left Our Shoes at the Door

I’ve lived in Africa since 1987, and living here has challenged and transformed me. I have learned languages, customs, and cultural cues very different from mine. Initially, I resisted the differences between those I was serving and myself until one day when I left my shoes at the door. But until I learned to leave…
A Father’s Day I’ll Not Forget: How to Be Grateful

I wrote the following post two years ago. Time has passed without me even noticing. This post is about A Father’s Day that I’ll never forget. This post came to my mind this morning. I thought about our family coming together to watch a Texas/Georgia college football game. (Yes, they lost that game I’m referring…



















